Your money mythology is the story money has lived inside you since childhood, and today you rewrite it from the root.
I met her in a winery.
She was the most amazing tour guide I have ever walked with. In the cool dark of the cellar, she asked what I did for a living. Author, coach, healer, I told her. I make bioenergized oils. I started in a minimum wage job and ran with every opportunity that dropped in my lap, out of pure survival.
Her eyes went wide. “I know exactly how that feels,” she said. “Money is for people who know how to manage it. Me? I’m terrified of money. I grew up on welfare, and no one I know has any money.”
Here is what I told her, dear one. Money is one of the most complex relationships any of us will ever hold. I struggled with my own identity around money for years, and so many of us carry the same story, especially as women.
Your money story, your money mythology, is the oldest script running in your life. Today we rewrite it.
Listen to the full episode: S2 E4 | How to Heal Your Relationship With Money, or find Manifest with the Law of Delight on Spotify and your favorite podcast app.
Why Your Money Story Runs So Deep
The money trauma women carry is control, usury, invalidation and devaluation. It strikes at the core of your heart: your value, the way you show up, the sense that you have to perform for money in a relationship, a career or a business.
Maybe you have heard a version of this in your own head: “I am not enough for money. Money is never enough for me. I labor so hard for money, and money never shows up for me.”
Money has been used to control people, by people who hold zero respect for its energy. Turn that relationship around and money frees you. Money loves to be enjoyed, used and expanded, and it flows toward the places where it is welcomed and delighted in. Today you become the most delightful place money has ever arrived.
The Winery Tour Guide Who Became a Six-Figure Retreat Leader
After that cellar conversation, I gave her access to my course, Transform Your Money & Wealth Mythology and heal your Scarcity Clause. Then she booked a breakthrough session with me and told me she longed for a purpose of her own.
We walked through her 12 emotional gateways and reframed her relationship with money. Then we mapped her passions with the Your Mission I’mPossible framework. One thing lit her face brighter than anything else: telling stories about the wine and its history, guiding people through the vineyards, taking people on an adventure.
I got an intuitive hit and ran with it. “You adore guiding people. Have you ever thought about facilitating retreats?”
So we set up a simple market test:
- One winery, one day, on her days off.
- Three or four facilitators: a yoga teacher, a healer, an intuitive guide or a speaker.
- Total what every facilitator needs, then price it 20% over the top.
- Sell it to eight women. Just eight.
Eight women booked her very first one-day retreat. It covered every expense and gave her a 35% profit. She was in shock.
In under six months she had created a six-figure business holding retreats and social clubs, and people began flying her out to facilitate theirs. She went from zero to amazing in a year. Her last retreat was in Egypt.
Hear this, beloved one. Her gift was there the whole time. Her shift was a new relationship with money, and with her mission and her passion. She moved from “I have to follow a format” to “I get to design my own.” Money stopped being a stranger at the door.
If you feel that same gift waiting inside you, The Shift is your private breakthrough 1:1 session with me. We find the pattern under your money desire, clear it together live, and you leave with your breakthrough.
Shift One: Money Jars and a Little Celebration Dance
The first shift is very, very tiny. Every time money arrives, celebrate. One dollar. A quarter. A penny on the sidewalk. Do a little dance and say, “Thank you. I love you. Come back here and celebrate with your friends.”
Then place money jars where money finds you: next to your computer, in your laundry room (mine catches every coin from a pocket with a “Thank you, money”), by your nightstand and by your front door.
That is the Law of Delight applied to money: “Delight yourself fully in life, and you will receive all your heart’s dreams and desires.”
Your Money Mythology and the Scarcity Clause
Every one of us carries a money mythology. It came from your family and the generations before them, from your culture, from your first job, from the dinner table when the bills arrived. “We can’t afford that.” “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” “Rich people are greedy.” Each sentence becomes part of the myth.
Underneath that, many people carry a soul contract with a Scarcity Clause written in, linked to a vow of poverty made in a past life. That clause lives in the Akashic field. Think of the Akashic field as the quantum field where the information of all lives, all histories and all realities is written.
This mythology quietly sets the ceiling on what you let yourself create. We can become addicted to the story of not enough.
The beautiful news: a mythology is a story, and you get to rewrite a story. A clause you never knowingly signed is a clause you get to strike out. In its place, you write a wealth clause into your soul contract and restore it into the Akashic field. I teach exactly how in Transform Your Money & Wealth Mythology, and I go deeper in How to Manifest Abundance by Releasing Scarcity Soul Contracts.
If you sense an emotional pattern under your money story, Find Your Gateway is a free, private emotional assessment, no email required.
Money Is a Conduit of Energy
Fiat currency is the Play-Doh through which the energy of money transfers: Monopoly money, numbers on a screen. Money is a conduit for energy to flow to you, and you use it for good for others and keep the circulation moving.
When you rewrite your money mythology from joy and purpose, your whole self feels safe with the idea of more, because more means more good in the world. You are abundant at your core. Your realignment strips away the stories and contracts, and money becomes a servant to your highest and best good. For more on this foundation, read Heal Your Relationship with Money and Find Delight in Wealth.
Shift Two: Money Grows in a Golden Spiral
Money follows the same golden spiral as everything else in the universe. Galaxies, sunflower seed heads, the Fibonacci sequence, the golden ratio: each turn grows from the last, wider and fuller. Compounding growth is that same sacred pattern.
So release the one giant leap and delight in every single turn of the spiral. The penny on the sidewalk turns into a quarter, then five dollars from a back pocket, then a hundred from something you sold, then a thousand-dollar offer. Each delight opens the next turn, and the spiral widens faster than you expect. I share more in Fibonacci Sequence Wealth: Grow Abundance in Natural Harmony.
Shift Three: Delight in Every Dollar, Coming and Going
Celebrate every dollar that comes in. Celebrate even more when a dollar flows out.
I know the anxious loop: “I can’t afford this.” Here is the truth, darling. You can, and you will. Be delighted that you get to pay.
- Groceries: feel the joy of a full fridge.
- Gas: feel the joy of a full tank.
- Rent or mortgage: feel the delight of a home that holds you and protects you.
- Self-care: feel the thrill of honoring your temple, the sacred house of your soul.
“Money that leaves with love comes back with friends to celebrate you.”
Money that leaves with fear teaches you anxiety, chaos and lack. Every time you spend, your nervous system learns what money feels like to you. So teach it delight.
Before your next money move, watch the free Law of Delight Movie, also inside the Law of Delight app. Questions? Ask Isis, the AI version of me, with five questions free.
Your Money Practice for Today
If you are driving, keep your hands on the wheel and picture the place you are driving to as your money. Do the full practice once you arrive home.
- Hold something that represents money to you: your wallet, a card, a bill, your banking app.
- Breathe in slowly and bring it to your heart. Notice your heart and your breath.
- Move it to your solar plexus, just above your belly button. Then to your lower abdomen, your sacral center. Then up to your throat. Notice where you feel tight and where you feel open and warm.
- Hold it in one hand, then the other. I receive money through my left hand and release it through my right. Feel which hand receives for you and which releases.
- Bring it back to your heart. Recall one thing money brought you that you adore: your home, a trip, a pet, the coffee in your hand. Feel the delight of that gift. Money is gift giving.
- Say out loud: “Oh, money. Thank you. I love you. I love what you bring into my life. I give freely with you. I love sharing you with others. I love watching you grow in my bank account. You are always welcome home here with your friends.”
- Picture your bank account one year from now holding a number that delights you and lets you breathe. Feel the ease, freedom, generosity and play. Now double it. Now add a zero. Let the joy fill you.
- From that feeling, ask: “What’s one delighted money action I can take today?” Raise a price. Send the invoice. Sell something you have outgrown. Open a savings or investment account. Take that action today.
Tonight: Your New Money Story Page
- Right before bed, write one full page of your new money story in the present tense, in your own words. “Money loves me. Money brings true, honorable friends to me easily and often. I enjoy every dollar I welcome in and every dollar I share.”
- Fold the page toward you 3 times and place it under your pillow.
- Read it first thing tomorrow morning, and again before bed for the next 5 nights.
Your assignment this week: celebrate every dollar that arrives, out loud, with a little kitchen dance. Every refund, every payment, every coin on the sidewalk. Woo hoo! Then notice what happens when money feels welcome and home. For more ways to welcome money, read How to Manifest Money with Ease and Grace Through Delight.
Welcome Money Home
Your gift is already here. Your abundance is your core. Let money arrive to a home that celebrates it, and let it leave with so much love that it returns with friends.
Listen to the full episode: S2 E4 | How to Heal Your Relationship With Money, or find Manifest with the Law of Delight on Spotify and your favorite podcast app.
- The Shift: your private breakthrough 1:1 session with me on the one money desire that matters most right now. You leave with your breakthrough.
- Transform Your Money & Wealth Mythology: rewrite your story from the root and clear the Scarcity Clause for good.
- The Law of Delight app: daily delight practices and the free movie, 14 days free.
- Find Your Gateway: your free, private emotional assessment, no email required.
Be delighted.
With all my love,
Isis
